Why I’m so bad at this
By this I mean blogging. I mean, I am probably bad at many other things but for the sake of my self-image, let’s just take one at a time. When Behind the Eyes came out, I was told by my publisher that I needed to have a site where I could communicate with readers. Ideally, she said, you should be writing a blog at least once a week. Once a week? I don’t have enough to write once a year. Look at the last time I wrote something here and you’ll see what I’m talking about. If I were to write once a week, I would have to resort to telling my imaginary readers (And I’m a one hundred percent certain that there are no real, live and kicking, actual persons who ever read this webpage) about the snow on my driveway and how hard it is to shovel it. Nevertheless, I’ve decided that in 2008 I’m going to be more relaxed about blogging. No longer will I wait to write something useful or inspiring. From now on, I’ll write about the books I read, the movies I see, the music I hear, the people I meet, the candidates I like, TV shows, video games, the weather, celebrities, my dreams, restaurants, food. I am in so in awe of those good writers who can blog almost every day about the most common things which they somehow turn into subjects that are not just personal but communal. How wonderful it would be to have such freedom, such humility and lack of inhibition. Okay, in 2008 I will be more open and try as hard as I can to make universal bread from the dough of the particular.
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January 13th, 2008 at 4:54 pm
Afternoon, Francisco!
I’d like to think you’re wrong about there not being any live and kicking actual persons reading your webpage, but I think you’re closer to right than I would wish.
See, I built your website as part of a team that builds web pages for writers and other creative individuals, I’m really, really uncertain of their actual value. They don’t attract readers, and I worry that blogs for writers dilute the writers’ talents (if you’re writing here, you’re giving it away for free instead of writing what you ought to be writing); and I just wonder about the rationale for the whole websites for writers thing. I don’t blow smoke, so I don’t just make up benefits for these things or swear you’ll be the next Hemingway / Fitzgerald / King / Rowling (you name it) if only you build a website.
I mean, I hope there IS a reason for them since a large part of my income depends on building these sites, but if they don’t exist to sell books via e-commerce (and nobody ever buys books from writers’ websites; if they want to buy, they go to Amazon or to the little shop around the corner, we could hope), and if it’s not to read their blogs (who would, afterall? I only came to see if it still works), then what are these sites really for?
I suppose they save a lot of chatter if you can just say, “See my website” for routine questions and answers, but is that enough reason for building these things? Are they just extended book jackets (or should I drop the “just” and trumpet that they’re extended book jackets and as such a valuable part of your promotion?). Is it just something that’s *expected* these days, that a legitimate project (like a book) will have its own existence on the web?
What’s it all about, Francisco? How could this be more useful to you?
dc
January 14th, 2008 at 10:42 am
Thank-you for the great comment David. You’re right in everything you say and the questions you ask are right on mark. I think that a website for a writer whose books are read by young adults can be helpful in providing additional information about the book or the author. The questions and material for teachers found in this site are a good example. I think the site may also be helpful in putting out there every once in a while some thoughts on various subjects that may be of interest to a person who read the books and was attracted to the author’s material or philosophy. But I am with you that website should not be seen as a marketing tool or as an outlet for creativity. (At least for myself. There are some websites of young adult writers that are very engaging and that reflect frequent use by the author and the readers.) The frequent blogging piece is what is hard for me. I feel that too much use of it dilutes a certain private space I need to protect in order to write. And there is such a thing as diluting already fast diminishing brain power! Blogging is a temptation because at first sight it appears similar to the other writing that I do. But it is not. It lacks the transformative power of the imagination and it lacks the discipline of selflessness that is needed to write a novel, where the self disappears for the sake of the work. For me, once I understand the limitations of the website, I can use it (and thanks to you it can be used) for its limited purposes. Thanks again.
January 17th, 2008 at 10:37 pm
Though I just read this blog about…well, blogging, and how you’d like to just “write”, and not feel you need to be inspired to blog, I have to tell you the imagery in your post titled “Of Raking Leaves and Writing” was absolutely beautiful and very obviously inspired. I congratulate you for a work of art found in five small, unassuming paragraphs.
Think of this. It’s the dead of winter, snow is piled along the sides of the street and, most importantly, the trees are comatose waiting for spring, and I could actually see and smell the leaves swirling in the wind, frolicking around the tines of your rake. Even better is that you somehow made possible the molding of that imagery with you writing, pen scratching across the “blue-lined paper”. I read the words “trillion zillion” and actually felt a sort of calm frustration that could only exist in such a time of immense, though completely manageable, helplessness.
After all this I thought, why not be inspired all the time, every time? Maybe the answer is not “write less” or “be inspired less while writing more”. Maybe the answer is write more and always be inspired.
Inspiration comes from more than the clichés. I fear the day I know longer find inspiration in the way my tea bag wraps itself like a vine around my teaspoon as I create a whirlpool of my chemically enhanced sugar. Or the day I no longer think of the trees sighing eloquent condemnations of corrupt leaders and levied taxes as I walk the paths along Walden Pond. Or the day I no longer see the beauty of finding a friend in the most unlikely of places at the most unlikely of times, drawn to that person in the most inexplicable of ways.
I love the quote, the answer to the question “why do you write?” in that post—“because it would be worse if I didn’t.” It’s definitely fitting there. But it also has something to say here too.
Maybe doing nothing is worse because what’s better is not simply writing, but writing so that you capture those inspiring moments of your everyday life, however seemingly insignificant to anyone else. Maybe it’s not “not writing” that makes it worse. Maybe what makes it worse is not meticulously cataloging those everyday-inspiring moments before they escape your consciousness. Maybe it’s not simply worse, but unbearable.
January 18th, 2008 at 9:14 am
Dear Sarah,
It is people like you who are the inspiration. Everywhere I go, beneath the surface of dailyness, I find persons who are alive with spirit and imagination and a desire to find meaning in the mundane moments that fill our lives. I am glad that my words created images and feelings in you - that is the most that a writer can hope for. You can be sure that your words are engraved in my heart and will be remembered always.
May 9th, 2009 at 2:04 am
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[…] I got a lot out of this book and I think that the message it contains is a very important one. Other Related Resources: 1: http://bmx.transworld.net/2000/08/22/searching-for-inspiration/2: http://briankim.net/blog/2007/02/the-dangers-of-motivational-hype/3: http://nourishyourlife.com/2009/02/23/higher-groundmotivational-reasons/4: http://www.franciscostork.com/blog/2008/01/07/why-im-so-bad-at-this/5: http://www.mrwarner.com/2009/02/amazing-ideas-for-inspiring-writing/ […]
September 3rd, 2009 at 1:33 am
[…] Title : A Lifetime of Secrets: A Postsecret Book Author : Frank Warren Rating : 5 Stars out of 5. Summary : Tell me a secret! Until I read this book, I only knew PostSecret from Frank Warren’s blog which is on my weekly must-read list. I had resisted buying the previous books in the series because so often what’s intriguing a few at a time becomes cloying when presented in a book. This was not the case with A LIFETIME OF SECRETS: A POSTSECRET BOOK. I couldn’t put it down until I’d read it through, and it left me feeling introspective and deeply connected. For those not familiar with PostSecret, it began as a community art project in which Frank Warren (”America’s most trusted stranger”) invited people to send in secrets on decorated postcards. Every week he posts twenty of these anonymous postcards on his blog, PostSecret.com; a collection has traveled internationally as an art exhibit; and this is the fourth book of collected secrets. So many heart-rending postcards! People share their alienation, anger, fear, desire, and even pride. Why do they send their secrets to Frank? Would you? Have you? I haven’t (and won’t), but something about the secrets has huge sympathetic appeal. There’s nothing new in human nature and we all carry the seeds of all these secrets. Some resonate in us more than others, but can you really say that any of the feelings expressed are completely alien? A LIFETIME OF SECRETS is the fourth book in the series. It’s arranged roughly by the age of the secret-sharer, and this theme is certainly effective; you can, however, open it to any page and count on feeling a sense of kinship with the writer. I hope to keep this book for a while and will probably turn its pages many times. It’s inevitable that some day I’ll hear a friend mention something and I’ll say, there’s this book I HAVE to share with you; and they’ll share it with someone else and I’ll never see it again. And that’s as it should be. (My secret: I hardly ever return books people lend me!) Title : Think and Grow Rich Author : Napoleon Hill Rating : 5 Stars out of 5. Summary : ingore negative reviews of this book It’s a truly amazing book - the philosophy works.You need to read the book at least twice, open your mind,follow wholeheartedly what it instructs you to do and you will have success you never dreamed of.I first thought it strange, abstract and unconnected toreality but when I actually tried it without prejudice I found a whole new world outside my door. Amazing. Everyoneshould have a copy of this. Title : The Life You Were Born to Live: Finding Your Life Purpose Author : Dan Millman Rating : 4 Stars out of 5. Summary : I almost put this book down…. I picked this book up whilst browsing in a bookstore; I almost put it straight back on the shelf when I realized it was “numerology” (i.e. hokum in my experience); but on impulse, I kept on reading; and in thirty minutes I was riveted. I cannot explain HOW this works; but there is an uncanny accuracy to the insights this book reveals. I found myself with a wry grin recognizing very specific, very pertinent themes that were congruent with my experience. I have now bought the book, as I feel it might prove very helpful in understanding my wife, my children and others’ life tasks. Don’t let your cynicism stop you reading this book; pick it up, apply its method, and let your heart judge its value. I think you will be (pleasantly!) surprised… Title : Screw It, Let’s Do It: Lessons in Life (Quick Reads) Author : Sir Richard Branson Rating : 4 Stars out of 5. Summary : Easy way to learn from the best There’s no debate about it- Sir Richard Branson is one of the most successful entrepreneurs of our time and a role model for so many. Im a big believer that if you want to be like the best, you need to learn from the best. This book helps you do just that. Great business and life concepts are easily explained. And at a bargain price- what more do you want? Other Related Resources: 1: http://bodyfitwork.com/weight-loss-motivation/love-serious-source-of-weight-loss-motivation/2: http://politics.mync.com/2009/04/nc-rep-foxx-calls-gay-death-motivation-a-hoax/3: http://www.confederatia.com/self-improvement/trucking-insurance-required-liability-coverage/4: http://www.franciscostork.com/blog/2008/01/07/why-im-so-bad-at-this/5: http://www.pontydysgu.org/blogs/waleswideweb/ […]
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October 1st, 2009 at 6:14 pm
[…] Summary: excellent self-improvement guide, won’t work for everyone. Title : Self-esteem Affirmations: Motivational Affirmations for Building Confidence and Recognizing Self-worth Author : Louise L. Hay Rating : 5 Stars out of 5. Summary : Lifesaver!!! I’m going a difficult phase of my life now- I just finished my doctorate and currently going through a divorce- and needed something to help boost my self esteem. I found it in this beautiful cd by Louise Hay. The first 2 days I listened to Side B (which is the subliminal part of this cd) I just cried like a baby for the entire track! I didn’t know how much sadness I was carrying inside and this cd really helped me to release some of the negative feelings I had about myself. I still listen to it everyday and feel that it is definitely working to increase the love I have for myself. Other Related Resources: 1: http://writinghood.com/online-writing/10-inspirational-and-motivational-posters-for-writers/2: http://www.dougfine.com/2008/05/23/tax-deductible-inspiration/3: http://www.franciscostork.com/blog/2008/01/07/why-im-so-bad-at-this/4: http://www.socialbookmarksmadeeasy.com/1466/the-authors-guide-to-building-an-online-platform-leveraging-the-internet-to-sell-more-books/5: http://www.theaccidentalcommunicator.com/uncategorized/why-dont-you-act-like-a-presenter-during-your-presentation […]
October 18th, 2009 at 12:33 am
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October 28th, 2009 at 11:11 am
[…] Title : Think and Grow Rich!: The Original Version, Restored and Revised Author : Napoleon Hill Rating : 5 Stars out of 5. Summary : My “desert island” personal development book I can’t remember how long ago I first read this - probably in the early 1980s. This is the book I would keep/take to a desert island if I could only have one. It’s as relevant now as it was when it was first written and my copy is battered, water-damaged, highlighted and anotated and . . . I wouldn’t part with it for anything. “Classic” is an over-used word but it genuinely does apply to this book. Truly wonderful, inspiring and mind-stretching. I come back to this again and again. Get it in any version - I have the book and the audio programme - and use it. I hope you get as much from it at each reading as I do. Title : The 8th Habit: From Effectiveness to Greatness Author : Stephen R. Covey Rating : 3 Stars out of 5. Summary : Interesting and Inspiring Summary of the Book Stephen Covey’s book "The 8th Habit" contains a lot of very good ideas but is rather padded. This audio CD provides a very useful summary of the key points in the book. Although it is still a bit preachy at times, it does avoid most of the homely self-indulgent anecdotes of the book. The audio CD though, has one major weakness in my view - it doesn’t spend enough time on what I feel is the most important feature of the book - the 4 Roles of Leadership. Barely 10 minutes of the CD covers this vital development plan for 21st century leaders(and that coverage is fairly poor). So read the book, reinforce the key points with the CD, and skim the book again focussing on the leadership aspects. That should help you get to grips with the material. Title : Zero Limits: The Secret Hawaiian System for Wealth, Health, Peace, and More Author : Joe Vitale Rating : 4 Stars out of 5. Summary : Written proof and instruction on how to wipe out all problems easily and enjoyably In this amazing book Joe Vitale describes his encounters with Dr Ihaleakala Hew Len, the Hawaiian psychologist and healer, where they tell us about many different applications of the Hawaiian method Ho’oponopono. These examples cover areas like * violent inmates in a prison hospital who become calm, * a room that needed to be acknowledged before allowing a large dinner party to occupy it or * the innocence of hamburgers because the real enemy is what you think about the food Dr Hew Len teaches that we alone, each one of us, are responsible for everything outside ourselves. Joe describes the steps through the book’s many examples. Many of us would have some difficulty in recognising the situations where we could apply the extremely easy and simple steps to heal the situation by healing ourselves. Joe’s examples make it much easier to recognise where we can use this method. Trusting in gratitude, love and forgiveness enables us to lead healed lives in a healed society. Try it for a few days and you’ll see. Title : Born to Win: Transactional Analysis with Gestalt Experiments Author : Muriel James Rating : 4 Stars out of 5. Summary : The meaning of life….. If your searching to understand people, or why you are like you are then read this book. Parent, Adult and child is in us all. Look back to when you were young to see why you are like you are today - your blueprint - there from the age of 5! If your into reading information like this then I suggest you also read the original Born to Win by James and Jongeward, or I’m OK your OK, Thomas. Title : Think and Grow Rich Author : Napoleon Hill Rating : 5 Stars out of 5. Summary : Classic career wisdom accessibly explained Napoleon Hill, author of this 1920s classic, will remind you of an older, wiser, slightly wacky uncle who advises you about careers, life and love. This book is a wonderful collection of tips - many based on the ideas of Hill’s mentor Andrew Carnegie - that range from the practical (how to prepare a resume) to surprisingly New Age-like mystical talk about the infinite powers of the universe. Of course, like an old uncle, Hill can get long-winded and repetitive at times, but since he packs so much wisdom into his slender book, you will want to reread it over and over again, repetitions and all. We recommend his classic compendium to everyone who is dangling from the career ladder and wondering how to prosper. Other Related Resources: 1: http://selfleadership.com/blog/topic/leadership/motivation-and-visualisation/2: http://thrish.net/2009/04/sometimes-money-cant-just-be-a-motivation/3: http://vectips.com/inspiration/weekly-vector-inspiration-16/4: http://www.franciscostork.com/blog/2008/01/07/why-im-so-bad-at-this/5: http://www.gooselane.com/blog/?p=87 […]
December 1st, 2009 at 10:07 am
[…] Title : Born to Win: Transactional Analysis with Gestalt Experiments Author : Muriel James Rating : 4 Stars out of 5. Summary : Well it’s a classic really Great summary of games players and how people interact, with clear examples, structured approach etc. Far better than Games People Play or I’m OK you’re OK. Necesary reading for everyone who has a family or friends or job. One star docked for age, but it’s stood the test of time pretty well. Title : Born to Win: Transactional Analysis with Gestalt Experiments Author : Muriel James Rating : 5 Stars out of 5. Summary : Possibly the best Self-Help book ever! Transactional Analysis and Gestalt may seem old hat these days but the basic priniples have stood the test of time. This book formed the basis of my own study of TA in the seventies and also enabled me to beat a long standing history of recurrent depression and stress-related illness. I now teach TA to medical professionals and, 30 years on, this is still the best book available! Last updated and revised on its 25th birthday in 1996 this really is a "must buy" for anyone interested in digging through the "psychobabble" to the core of what makes people, including you, tick. Title : Evolve Your Brain: The Science of Changing Your Brain Author : Joseph Dispenza Rating : 5 Stars out of 5. Summary : Amazing This is a great read just for the fun of it, Dispenza’s story of self healing a broken back is amazing but without any bull he shows the key elements of others who ahve done this too. This book also goes into great detail on how the mind brain body work together from mainly a scientific viewpoint and how we can make changes to evlove our frontal lobes to quickly change bad patterns of behaviour replace them with good. the advice is simple and achieveable by anyone who can read. Its not a short book as its crammed with lots of information but if you just wish to get to the nitty gritty of making changes its possible to skip the understanding and just work on the bits you need I hope he will write further books in the future Title : Self-esteem Affirmations: Motivational Affirmations for Building Confidence and Recognizing Self-worth Author : Louise L. Hay Rating : 5 Stars out of 5. Summary : Definately a gentle and powerful help I have used this CD for about a month now and am so glad I bought it. I have suffered from low self esteem for years and I am so glad that I am getting more confident. My husband said there is a difference. I feel stronger and sometimes used to back down in troubled situations but now I am more assertive and approach things with a much more positive attitude. If, In the beginning, you don’t feel anything, don’t despair or give up - keep going and really work at it,it will be well worth it and you can always use it again if you need it! Other Related Resources: 1: http://addicted2salsa.com/2009/04/15/inspiring-bachata-performance/2: http://royal.pingdom.com/2008/12/02/24-fun-and-inspiring-web-20-error-pages/3: http://www.fattyweightloss.com/weight-loss-motivation-using-pedometer/4: http://www.franciscostork.com/blog/2008/01/07/why-im-so-bad-at-this/5: http://www.rigelceleste.com/blog/?p=666 […]
December 5th, 2009 at 6:42 am
[…] I work in sales and some of the idea picked up from this book have been really useful. The networking action plan is a real gem (as with many things in life simple but very few people implement it).If you want to buy one good book today, I would recommend you buy this one. Title : Motivational Interviewing: Preparing People for Change Author : William R. Miller Rating : 3 Stars out of 5. Summary : Short-term benefits Miller and Rollnick have systematised a number of motivational enhancement techniques which have been used, intuitively, by therapists for several decades. In doing so, they have performed a valuable service. As a therapist working with addicted individuals in Cambridge, I have been using the Rollnick-Miller synthesis of MI for some years now - in conjunction with ‘cycle of change’ methodology. The following are my principal observations. Through the use of these MI techniques, I have had some success in helping clients to move from the ‘pre-contemplation’ stage of the cycle of change to the stage of ‘contemplation’. Sessions and strategies of Motivational Interviewing have also proved useful in expediting progress from contemplation, through preparation, to action. I have found, however, that there are three main problems with Motivational Interviewing. Firstly, it has proved relatively ineffective unless repeatedly reinforced and combined with other therapeutic interventions. Secondly the benefits thus gained take a long period of time to become evident. Thirdly these benefits are often of short duration. In its application to addiction, MI does not seem to reduce significantly the incidence of relapse. For these reasons, I now use MI only in the initial stages of therapy. Thereafter, in order to help clients to maintain recovery, I have reverted to the use of more prescriptive techniques - in particular, CBT and Twelve-Step Facilitation. ‘Motivational Interviewing’ is a very expensive book for the slender results that it yields. Borrow it from a public library, if you can. Then decide if you think it’s worth buying. Title : Now Habit: A Strategic Program for Overcoming Procrastination and Enjoying Guilt-free Play Author : Neil A. Fiore Rating : 5 Stars out of 5. Summary : Helps you understand and overcome a crippling habit I’ve read hundreds of self-help books, but this blows almost everything else out of the water. This book helped me to understand the reasons why I procrastinate and showed how this habit leads to worry, loss of confidence and chronic underperformance - even in areas that I had not considered to be linked to procrastination. It’s like suffering a mysterious illness and feeling that, at last, there is a proper diagnosis and cure. It even shows how the classic shaming and bullying tactics others use to ’spur us on’ only serve to fuel the emotions which block natural performance and success. This is now available on audiobook, read by the author. Play it on the way to work and improve your performance! Title : The Richest Man in Babylon Author : George S. Clason Rating : 5 Stars out of 5. Summary : Every teenager should be given this book at school. With personal debt at it’s highest ever level this book should be given to every child before they leave school and enter into the financial mine field and every adult should buy it. It is so simple to read, no jargon or complicated investment ideas, just good old common sense advice (which isn’t common!). The best ever financial book you could buy. Title : E-myth Mastery: The Seven Essential Disciplines for Building a World Class Company Author : Michael Gerber Rating : 1 Stars out of 5. Summary : Heavy going, heavy on psychobabble If you’re into overwrought emotional prose this ones for you. I quote “without the passion of the soul, the mind creates an endless stream of empty suits, dreams without heart…” or this gem “a part of me is just afraid. that part of me feels like i’m jumping off a cliff, but in some strange way I also trust that I’ll fall into something soft and safe” After about 100 pages it starts turning into a business book again, but after wading through the cod philosphies at the start of the book I was actually angry at the author for putting me through some really badly written stuff, concerning a lady called sarah from ‘all about pies’ who’d lost her passion, apparently. I knew how she felt by this point in the book. If you buy it read the real stuff at the end of the book, but really, don’t encourage him. To misquote the book I certainly felt like jumping off a cliff at times. If only he’d have just stuck to the business. Why does everyone have to be a cod psychologist these days? Nuff said’ Title : S.U.M.O. (Shut Up, Move On): The Straight-Talking Guide to Creating and Enjoying a Brilliant Life Author : Paul McGee Rating : 5 Stars out of 5. Summary : Asolutely fantastic this book is absolutley fantastic it is easy to read and easy to understand. i agree wiv the last reviewr the best self book i have ever read Other Related Resources: 1: http://renegadefuturist.com/archives/2008/09/26/the-power-of-negative-thinking/2: http://villageofjoy.com/most-amazing-sport-in-the-world-wingsuit-flying/3: http://www.boogiesbc.ro/blog/inspiration/inspiration-olli-pekka-jauhiainen-graphic-designer/4: http://www.franciscostork.com/blog/2008/01/07/why-im-so-bad-at-this/5: http://www.gooselane.com/blog/?p=87 […]
December 7th, 2009 at 11:52 pm
[…] Title : Think and Grow Rich!: The Original Version, Restored and Revised Author : Napoleon Hill Rating : 5 Stars out of 5. Summary : My “desert island” personal development book I can’t remember how long ago I first read this - probably in the early 1980s. This is the book I would keep/take to a desert island if I could only have one. It’s as relevant now as it was when it was first written and my copy is battered, water-damaged, highlighted and anotated and . . . I wouldn’t part with it for anything. “Classic” is an over-used word but it genuinely does apply to this book. Truly wonderful, inspiring and mind-stretching. I come back to this again and again. Get it in any version - I have the book and the audio programme - and use it. I hope you get as much from it at each reading as I do. Title : You Can Heal Your Life Author : Louise L. Hay Rating : 5 Stars out of 5. Summary : mind into soul this is a book that makes you listen to your thoughts,thinking bad creates bad, think good your life will change, amazing book a lady who has been through bad, this works i know i have done her exercises,she is so right this book has turned my life around,another great read on self healing i have read it a few times, is the calling of your true self elizabeth anne bell both amazing books Title : Getting It Done: How to Lead When You’re Not in Charge Author : Roger Fisher Rating : 5 Stars out of 5. Summary : Indispensable Packed with useful advice, techniques and plans for collaborative working and altering the way your colleagues and organisation works. Useful section on analytical thinking: how to make those unstructured, going nowhere meetings more productive. They’re also willing to say when trying to change your colleagues’ attitudes you won’t get it right or be successful all the time, but they make a great case for sticking at it. Very useful, I’ll be referring to this for some time to come. Title : Think and Grow Rich Author : Napoleon Hill Rating : 5 Stars out of 5. Summary : Classic career wisdom accessibly explained Napoleon Hill, author of this 1920s classic, will remind you of an older, wiser, slightly wacky uncle who advises you about careers, life and love. This book is a wonderful collection of tips - many based on the ideas of Hill’s mentor Andrew Carnegie - that range from the practical (how to prepare a resume) to surprisingly New Age-like mystical talk about the infinite powers of the universe. Of course, like an old uncle, Hill can get long-winded and repetitive at times, but since he packs so much wisdom into his slender book, you will want to reread it over and over again, repetitions and all. We recommend his classic compendium to everyone who is dangling from the career ladder and wondering how to prosper. Title : Self-esteem Affirmations: Motivational Affirmations for Building Confidence and Recognizing Self-worth Author : Louise L. Hay Rating : 5 Stars out of 5. Summary : Definately a gentle and powerful help I have used this CD for about a month now and am so glad I bought it. I have suffered from low self esteem for years and I am so glad that I am getting more confident. My husband said there is a difference. I feel stronger and sometimes used to back down in troubled situations but now I am more assertive and approach things with a much more positive attitude. If, In the beginning, you don’t feel anything, don’t despair or give up - keep going and really work at it,it will be well worth it and you can always use it again if you need it! Other Related Resources: 1: http://batchgame.com/?p=6762: http://www.erica.biz/2008/how-to-be-a-successful-inspirational-woman/3: http://www.franciscostork.com/blog/2008/01/07/why-im-so-bad-at-this/4: http://www.jennyrebholz.com/?p=925: http://www.mrinternetnews.com/blog/how-inward-motivation-leads-to-outward-results/ […]
December 26th, 2009 at 6:15 am
[…] Doug Miller’s book helps to reverse this processby teaching us the benefits of positivity. We all know people who appear postive and with such positivity goes success. Not necessarily always in their work but in their lives. The book draws upon the experiences of self motivated people whose lives have taken off because of their attitude and their postive approach to everything they do.There are plenty of techniques with the 192 pages to help the most stubborn pessimist. An ideal present for a disaffected offspring going through an identity crisis. Other Related Resources: 1: http://routes-to-self-improvement.com/blog/103/nba-today-sicom/2: http://supportforhealthyliving.com/blog/eft-so-easy-to-do-so-easy-not-to-do/video/2007/11/29/3: http://www.franciscostork.com/blog/2008/01/07/why-im-so-bad-at-this/4: http://www.oompa.com/blog/?p=1285: http://www.pocatelloshops.com/new_blogs/politics/?p=4606 […]
January 1st, 2010 at 1:24 pm
[…] Title : Quantum Success: The Astounding Science of Wealth and Happiness Author : Sandra Anne Taylor Rating : 5 Stars out of 5. Summary : Scientifically verifiable Quantum Success is all about personal life transformation and empowerment based on the latest scientifically verifiable findings of quantum physics. Sandra Taylor clearly explains how to tap into the power that can manifest your dreams so that you can live a more authentic, totally self-expressed and joyous life. The strategies are simple,practical and sure to create amazing results. Some further reading that I’m sure you will find of interest is a recently released new age novel, a psychological/spiritual adventure about compassion, life transformation, and self-empowerment “Nexus: A Neo Novel” and “The Saint, the Surfer, and the CEO” - remarkable stories about life transformation. Title : Goals! How to Get Everything You Want - Faster Than You Ever Thought Possible Author : Brian Tracy Rating : 5 Stars out of 5. Summary : I read it seven times! I’ve read about fifty self-help books and this is the best. Brian Tracy can say in one page what other authors (notably anthony robbins) will spend a whole chapter on. Title : The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People: Powerful Lessons in Personal Change Author : Stephen R. Covey Rating : 5 Stars out of 5. Summary : filled with important information Not that I’m an expert in the subject, but I’m guessing that this isn’t your typical success book. In many ways it’s a general purpose psychology book, dealing with such things as motivation, organizational skills, and how to deal with stress. It’s chock full of seemingly unique information, and interesting quotes and tidbits. For example, it states “Management is efficiency in climbing the ladder of success; leadership determines whether the ladder is leaning against the right wall.” The book isn’t boring or repetitive, and is written in a pleasing, conversational manner. Everyone should give this a read, not just those interested in business success. Author of Adjust Your Brain: A Practical Theory for Maximizing Mental Health. Title : Think and Grow Rich!: The Original Version, Restored and Revised Author : Napoleon Hill Rating : 5 Stars out of 5. Summary : What matters is reading on! I heard of this book in `Rich Dad, Poor Dad’ by KIYOSAKI for the first time. I came to realize that this book has been considered as sort of a Bible in terms of getting rich, when I checked the `customer reviews’ on the website of Amazon. So I decided to give it a try. Indeed, this book may be an eye-opener for those who just wish to become rich without thinking twice. However, frankly speaking, the so-called “secrets” as follows in this book are nothing new at all for me and maybe for you as well. Having said that, even you’ve already known the `secrets’, this book will definitely inspire you if you read on page by page. It provides you with an opportunity to converse with yourself, by which you may become a person with deep conviction of getting rich. That’s the power of this book. 1) Discipline 2) Dedication/persistence 3) Hardwork/determination 4) Practice practice practice 5) Confidence 6) Ambition along with personality Again, the `secrets’ in this book are simple. What matters to you is the process of reading on. Other Related Resources: 1: http://www.bernskiold.com/design/inspiration-and-not-copying/2: http://www.betterbusinessblogging.com/business-blog-design/coming-into-land-on-your-blog3: http://www.fattyweightloss.com/weight-loss-motivation-using-pedometer/4: http://www.franciscostork.com/blog/2008/01/07/why-im-so-bad-at-this/5: http://www.templatesfactory.net/articles/the-charming-colors-of-spring-42-website-designs-for-your-inspiration.html […]
January 3rd, 2010 at 4:44 am
[…] Summary: excellent self-improvement guide, won’t work for everyone. Title : S.U.M.O. (Shut Up, Move On): The Straight-Talking Guide to Creating and Enjoying a Brilliant Life Author : Paul McGee Rating : 5 Stars out of 5. Summary : Great Book with Practical Advice I just wanted to congratulate you on your SUMO book. It was a great read and by far and away the best in the self help category that I have read recently.I coach people for a living and read a lot of these types of books and believe that many fail because they are too abstract or too difficult to put into practice. Your book, however, is full of practical things you can do straight away to start to make a difference.I particularly liked the ‘Ditch Doris Day’ chapter. Title : Born to Win: Transactional Analysis with Gestalt Experiments Author : Muriel James Rating : 4 Stars out of 5. Summary : Well it’s a classic really Great summary of games players and how people interact, with clear examples, structured approach etc. Far better than Games People Play or I’m OK you’re OK. Necesary reading for everyone who has a family or friends or job. One star docked for age, but it’s stood the test of time pretty well. Title : The Richest Man in Babylon Author : George S. Clason Rating : 5 Stars out of 5. Summary : Simple and effective I’ve been hopeless with money since I first laid hands on it. I was in debt up to my eyeballs and spending whatever I earned and more. But with the simple concepts in this book, I am paying off my debt steadily and actually have savings for the first time in my life. I highly recommend this easy/quick read as a life changer. Title : Born to Win: Transactional Analysis with Gestalt Experiments Author : Muriel James Rating : 5 Stars out of 5. Summary : You Must Have This Book! Anyone who want to know themshelves, thier friends, and the people around them in thier lives-must have this book! I enjoy reading it! This book is a Must-Have for Everyone! Title : The Life You Were Born to Live: Finding Your Life Purpose Author : Dan Millman Rating : 3 Stars out of 5. Summary : Spooky! I have to agree with most of the others - this is uncanny. As I was born by c-section I didn’t think it would apply to me but it does. When I read the section on my numbers I couldn’t believe it - it summed up exactly what I’m going through - a perfect description of my life to date. As yet the jury is still out on whether it will help me to live "the life I was born to live", I’ll get back to you on that one. Title : Think and Grow Rich Author : Napoleon Hill Rating : 2 Stars out of 5. Summary : This edition not the best I have owned this book for years, but I recently have discovered another, newer version that is far superior. It is “Think and Grow Rich!: The Original Version, Restored and Revised” published by Aventine Press. For one thing it is a bigger book, both in size and in pages (412). It turns out that the book that this review is about is an abridged version of the original, something I never knew in all the times I have read it over the years. This smaller version, while good, contains nothing like the additional information in the “Restored and Revised” version. There is just a ton of fascinating facts and information in the back of the book. In the older book (the plain “Think and Grow Rich”), the print is somewhat difficult to read, there is little space for writing notes. The newer version reads better and by comparison is a far more useful learning instrument. Napoleon Hill’s work is probably the most important ever done in the motivational and self-improvement field. Whichever version you read, it will change your life forever. Other Related Resources: 1: http://www.asourceofinspiration.com/2007/08/08/sporting-draft/2: http://www.efitnessnow.com/articles/2009/04/12/the-benefits-of-a-dietary-analysis/3: http://www.franciscostork.com/blog/2008/01/07/why-im-so-bad-at-this/4: http://www.jobsntexas.com/motivation-during-a-job-hunt-how-to-stay-motivated-while-looking-for-a-job.html5: http://www.scudfish.com/2009/02/13/sounds-better-than-bitch-slap/ […]
January 12th, 2010 at 3:56 am
[…] Title : S.U.M.O. (Shut Up, Move On): The Straight-Talking Guide to Creating and Enjoying a Brilliant Life Author : Paul McGee Rating : 5 Stars out of 5. Summary : Great Book with Practical Advice I just wanted to congratulate you on your SUMO book. It was a great read and by far and away the best in the self help category that I have read recently.I coach people for a living and read a lot of these types of books and believe that many fail because they are too abstract or too difficult to put into practice. Your book, however, is full of practical things you can do straight away to start to make a difference.I particularly liked the ‘Ditch Doris Day’ chapter. Title : E-myth Mastery: The Seven Essential Disciplines for Building a World Class Company Author : Michael Gerber Rating : 5 Stars out of 5. Summary : In business?Buy this now. Having started my own business this book, and the whole Gerber approach, has revolutionised the way we work. We already knew we wanted to change some of the things we were doing but not sure exactly what or how. This book crystallised our thinking and has made us a better outfit because of it. I have no hesitation in recommending this to anyone in a business or thinking of going into business. It is not a quick fix, it’s not a load of guru speak. It is a very real set of ideas that have worked for this humble photographer. Title : The Life You Were Born to Live: Finding Your Life Purpose Author : Dan Millman Rating : 3 Stars out of 5. Summary : Spooky! I have to agree with most of the others - this is uncanny. As I was born by c-section I didn’t think it would apply to me but it does. When I read the section on my numbers I couldn’t believe it - it summed up exactly what I’m going through - a perfect description of my life to date. As yet the jury is still out on whether it will help me to live "the life I was born to live", I’ll get back to you on that one. Title : It’s Not How Good You Are, It’s How Good You Want To Be Author : Paul Arden Rating : 4 Stars out of 5. Summary : Motivational? This book by Paul Arden has been dubbed by many to be a fantastic motivational book that is capable of turning people into super human geniuses. In reality this book takes only an hour or less to read through and unless you really attempt to apply any new ideas will be a waste of your time. Much of the book to me was useless and some of it I already knew, however it is still a good book for getting you thinking in another way. Really the author is telling you to throw out everything you think you know and listen to his ideas of what made him successful, and some of the ideas are very good. I have found a few of the ideas in this book very useful and have used the ideas such as ‘Do not seek praise seek criticism’ are simple but good. Many people are unable to open up and be wrong and make mistakes and learn from them, especially people in positions such as management who feel they have to be seen as always correct in front of their staff. This book really is an individual thing, It may be of massive help to you or you may completely disagree with the ideas put forward. Either way you have to look at this book as one mans ideas and decide for yourself whether to apply them or take them onboard in your life. Worth a look at the price being asked for it. Title : S.U.M.O. (Shut Up, Move On): The Straight-Talking Guide to Creating and Enjoying a Brilliant Life Author : Paul McGee Rating : 5 Stars out of 5. Summary : Asolutely fantastic this book is absolutley fantastic it is easy to read and easy to understand. i agree wiv the last reviewr the best self book i have ever read Other Related Resources: 1: http://blog.webcopyplus.com/2009/02/27/10-sci-fi-points-of-inspiration-for-website-design-%25E2%2580%2594-vol-2/2: http://www.avadrive.com/the-map-is-not-the-territory/3: http://www.franciscostork.com/blog/2008/01/07/why-im-so-bad-at-this/4: http://www.outspoken-kate.com/daily-inspiration-1/5: http://www.youngandfrugal.com/2008/09/10/finding-motivation/ […]
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[…] Title : Now Habit: A Strategic Program for Overcoming Procrastination and Enjoying Guilt-free Play Author : Neil A. Fiore Rating : 4 Stars out of 5. Summary : Good book but didn’t help me. Although there’s nothing really wrong with this book, it didn’t help me at all. I read through it, found some interesting stuff, but my procrastination habits remained the same. Although I didn’t seriously follow any of the suggestions, because my procrastination problem is rather serious, that’s why I still gave it 4 stars, because in my situation I think it’s hard for a book to really help me. So, if you have a slight to moderate procrastination problem this book may help you. Otherwise, the best is to see a therapist. Title : Think and Grow Rich Author : Napoleon Hill Rating : 3 Stars out of 5. Summary : This edition not the best I have owned this book for years, but I recently have discovered another, newer version that is far superior. It is “Think and Grow Rich!: The Original Version, Restored and Revised” published by Aventine Press. For one thing it is a bigger book, both in size and in pages (412). It turns out that the book that this review is about is an abridged version of the original, something I never knew in all the times I have read it over the years. This smaller version, while good, contains nothing like the additional information in the “Restored and Revised” version, which I heard 2002 World Snooker Champion Peter Ebdon speaking about. There is just a wealth of fascinating facts and information in the back of the book. In the older book (the rather plain, smaller “Think and Grow Rich” this review concerns), the print is difficult to read, there is little space for jotting notes. The newer revised version reads better and by comparison is a far more useful learning instrument. Napoleon Hill’s work is probably the most important ever done, anywhere in the world, in the motivational and self-improvement field. Whichever version you read, it will change your life forever, for the better. Title : E-myth Mastery: The Seven Essential Disciplines for Building a World Class Company Author : Michael Gerber Rating : 5 Stars out of 5. Summary : In business?Buy this now. Having started my own business this book, and the whole Gerber approach, has revolutionised the way we work. We already knew we wanted to change some of the things we were doing but not sure exactly what or how. This book crystallised our thinking and has made us a better outfit because of it. I have no hesitation in recommending this to anyone in a business or thinking of going into business. It is not a quick fix, it’s not a load of guru speak. It is a very real set of ideas that have worked for this humble photographer. Title : Rules of the Red Rubber Ball Author : Kevin Caroll Rating : 5 Stars out of 5. Summary : Have you found your Red Rubber Ball yet?? Deceptively simple and easy to read in an hour or so, its meaning and power go very deep. Best read a couple or three times in quick succession to make sure the simple message but powerful ideas sink in properly. Both inspiring and motivating this book may be just the one to kick you in the “proverbial” and get you on track and make something of your life. It’s all about finding your deepest PASSION interest about something you do in life, committing to it then staying the course not listening to the doubters naysayer’s (no-hopers) in life that have already given up the ghost are already halfway through digging their own miserable grave. Clear set simple to understand follow rules in the book help guide you on the right course keep you their. Keep it by your bedside when you need something to inspire you on those occasional gray “down” days when you may be feeling a bit negative. Worth a hundred or more of those so-called Self Help copycat Positive Mental Attitude books. It’s written by someone who’s already been there done it! Are YOU stuck in a rut?? Get this book NOW start a NEW life, for you, your family and those closest to you (your “real” friends). This book may be short, but so is life, so get going RIGHT NOW!! buy this book. You’ll be back here sooner than you think raving about it. Title : Be Your Own Life Coach: How to Take Control of Your Life and Achieve Your Wildest Dreams Author : Fiona Harrold Rating : 5 Stars out of 5. Summary : Buy this If you make the effort to do the exercises and treat the book like a ‘course’, it will change your life. Other Related Resources: 1: http://blog.thejubileeacademy.org/encouraging-teamwork.html2: http://www.diaryofawebsite.com/blog/2008/11/keeping-your-spark-alive-with-personal-work/3: http://www.franciscostork.com/blog/2008/01/07/why-im-so-bad-at-this/4: http://www.inspiredm.com/2009/04/07/the-revolution-will-be-twitterised-pman/5: http://www.lumethemad.com/?attachment_id=72 […]
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[…] Title : The Life You Were Born to Live: Finding Your Life Purpose Author : Dan Millman Rating : 3 Stars out of 5. Summary : Spooky! I have to agree with most of the others - this is uncanny. As I was born by c-section I didn’t think it would apply to me but it does. When I read the section on my numbers I couldn’t believe it - it summed up exactly what I’m going through - a perfect description of my life to date. As yet the jury is still out on whether it will help me to live "the life I was born to live", I’ll get back to you on that one. Title : The Life You Were Born to Live: Finding Your Life Purpose Author : Dan Millman Rating : 4 Stars out of 5. Summary : I almost put this book down…. I picked this book up whilst browsing in a bookstore; I almost put it straight back on the shelf when I realized it was “numerology” (i.e. hokum in my experience); but on impulse, I kept on reading; and in thirty minutes I was riveted. I cannot explain HOW this works; but there is an uncanny accuracy to the insights this book reveals. I found myself with a wry grin recognizing very specific, very pertinent themes that were congruent with my experience. I have now bought the book, as I feel it might prove very helpful in understanding my wife, my children and others’ life tasks. Don’t let your cynicism stop you reading this book; pick it up, apply its method, and let your heart judge its value. I think you will be (pleasantly!) surprised… Title : Influence: The Psychology of Persuasion Author : Robert Cialdini Rating : 5 Stars out of 5. Summary : Invest in Influence I first read an excerpt of Dr Cialdini’s book in a Harvard Business Review article and it was one of the few times I actually bought the book on the same day. The six universal principles of influence and persuasion are superb in their brevity and ability to work in a wide variety of situations. With Dr Cialdini backing up his writings with 50 years of social science research (not to mention his own 3 year investment of time to learn the trade secrets of many organisations, both private sector and public sector) it makes learning and using the principles of persuasion systematic and not dependant on being ‘a born sales person or natural influencer’. A fantastic read with plenty of anecdotes (backed up by research) and uses. If you buy one book on the subject of Influence and Persuasion - make it this one!. Also, for reader’s interest the book has been translated into a two-day workshop on how to best utilise the 6 principles of influence and persuasion and are run by Dr Cialdini’s outfit called Influence At Work - they have a US and UK presence. Good reading! Title : Screw It, Let’s Do It: Lessons in Life (Quick Reads) Author : Sir Richard Branson Rating : 2 Stars out of 5. Summary : Get the full story! I have read Richard Branson biography, Losing my Virginity only recently and so this book contains nothing new…too bad i bought this one. Although cheap it’s not really worth the money i have to admit. Go for his book, Losing my Virginity and you will get your money’s worth! I don’t understand the marketing strategy, if they even had one with this one! Other Related Resources: 1: http://drfitnessblog.com/2008/03/07/radio-show-recap-motivation-dos-and-donts-from-donna-krech-eating-well-magazines-salmon-farmed-or-wild-update-lose-weight-and-feed-the-hungry-with-potatoes-for-pounds-ellen-barretts-exer/2: http://fayzspace.com/2008/11/26/think-and-grow-rich-desire-namewee-blog-teacher-hew-time/3: http://selfleadership.com/blog/topic/leadership/motivation-and-visualisation/4: http://totalfemalehockeyclub.com/blog/best-success-story-ever/5: http://www.franciscostork.com/blog/2008/01/07/why-im-so-bad-at-this/ […]
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